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Functional Communication Examples for Autism: Message Bank

A printable autism functional communication message bank covering requests, refusal, help, repair, regulation, information, and connection across speech and AAC.

By Avery Rowan Parents and professionals Published July 14, 2026

Educational message-planning tool grounded in linked ASHA guidance; not an AAC evaluation, device prescription, or SLP-reviewed treatment plan.

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Functional communication changes what happens next. It is broader than requesting objects and broader than speech.

The American Speech-Language-Hearing Association describes AAC across the lifespan and includes gestures, signs, objects, pictures, writing, boards, and speech-generating devices. Its guidance says AAC users should always have access to their communication tools and highlights expression of wants, needs, feelings, ideas, social closeness, information exchange, and etiquette (ASHA AAC Practice Portal).

Printable message bank by function

Choose messages that matter now. Use the person’s established language and communication system.

Request and choice

  • I want ___
  • More
  • Different
  • This one / that one
  • My turn
  • Can we ___?

Refusal and boundaries

  • No
  • Stop
  • Not that
  • Don’t touch
  • More space
  • I don’t want to talk
  • I changed my mind

Help and repair

  • Help
  • Show me
  • Say it again
  • I don’t understand
  • That’s not what I meant
  • Look here
  • I need another way to say it

Regulation and pacing

  • Break
  • Wait
  • More time
  • Too loud / bright / close
  • Quieter place
  • Headphones
  • Finished

Information

  • What is happening?
  • Where are we going?
  • How long?
  • Who will be there?
  • What changed?
  • When is ___?

Social connection

  • Look at this
  • I like ___
  • I don’t like ___
  • That’s funny
  • Tell me about ___
  • I need alone time
  • I want to join

Safety

  • It hurts
  • I feel sick
  • I am lost
  • I need a trusted adult
  • Call ___
  • I don’t feel safe

Message planning worksheet

SituationCurrent message or behaviorNeeded messageCommunication form/locationPartner response

The last column is essential. A message is not functional if partners do not notice it, understand it, or respond consistently.

Build access before practice

Check:

  • Can the person physically reach or navigate the message?
  • Is it available in every relevant setting?
  • Do partners recognize non-speech attempts?
  • Does the system include refusal, pain, and repair—not only preferred items?
  • Is there enough time to compose the message?
  • Is a low-tech backup available for charging, noise, water, transport, or device failure?

Do not require a person to prove readiness for AAC. ASHA describes a range of unaided, low-tech, and high-tech options and collaborative assessment across access, language, participation, and communication needs.

Model without taking over

Partners can point to or select a small number of relevant words while speaking naturally. This is often called augmented input or aided language modeling.

Model on a partner board or, with permission, briefly on the user’s system. Do not hold the device out of reach, physically force selections, or turn every model into a demand to copy.

Example:

The blender is loud. The partner points to “too loud” and “stop” while saying, “Too loud. We can stop.” Then the partner stops it.

The adult response gives the message meaning.

Expand without rejecting the first message

If the person uses “help,” respond first, then model “help open” or “help find.” If they use “no,” honor the boundary and clarify what is negotiable. Expansion should make communication more efficient, not delay access until grammar is perfect.

Communication-partner checklist

  • The system stays within reach.
  • I wait long enough for navigation and motor response.
  • I acknowledge gestures, body movement, speech, sign, writing, and AAC.
  • I respond to refusal and pain messages.
  • I model more language than I require.
  • I avoid testing every symbol.
  • I know the low-tech backup.
  • I involve the AAC user in changes to vocabulary and layout.

Seek an SLP with AAC competence for individualized access assessment, reliable yes/no, symbol or literacy needs, motor access, device funding, or a system that is not meeting the person’s communication needs.

Common Questions

How to use this tool.

What is functional communication?

It is communication that accomplishes a meaningful purpose—requesting, refusing, getting help, sharing information, repairing misunderstanding, regulating interaction, or connecting socially.

Do these messages have to be spoken words?

No. Functional messages can use speech, sign, gesture, object, picture, writing, communication board, or speech-generating device. A person may use several modes.

Should AAC be available all day?

ASHA states that people who use AAC should always have access to their communication tools or devices. Partners should not remove a system as punishment or limit it to therapy trials.

Can I add all messages to a device myself?

Use this bank to notice communication functions, not to redesign an AAC system blindly. Coordinate major vocabulary, access, motor, or layout decisions with the AAC user and a qualified SLP or AAC team.

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